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"I pinky swear promise!"

Happy Friday MAMAs,

The Grand Old Party rolled out it's "Pledge to America," outlining the core Republican agenda for 2011.   Reminiscent of the Republican's 1994 "Contract With America," making the party goals clear and letting Americans know their vision for the future. 

Since MAMAs are literally shaping the future of our country, one child at a time, we decided to make our own Pledge to America's Kids! Moms don't usually write these things down because we're too busy actually making them happen, but we thought it might be fun to make a promise to each other and our kids. Take the   Pledge to America's Kids and pass it on  to all the MAMAs you know!  Let's commit to raising happy, healthy, well-adjusted citizens by ushering in a new era of parental responsibility - with a little humor and a lot of common sense, of course.  

"This document verifies that I pinky swear promise to do my very best to “usher in a new era of parental responsibility.” I admit that I am good, but I am not perfect, so I reserve the right to..." click to read the "pledge" and sign

Spread the word...let's see how many MAMAs we can get to take the "Pledge To America's Kids."  Thanks MAMAs!  



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In The News:

Tea Party GOP candidate Christina O'Donnell shocked the GOP establishment by winning the Delaware Senate Primary.  Her views on pre-marital sex and being a wiccan have made big national news.  Here's what we have to say about primaries...

http://www.o-mama.com/articles/index/category:government

Primaries are BORING, right? Voter turnout is typically dismal in the United States, particularly in mid-term and primary elections.  No one cares…we go about our day, doing our thing and then we wonder how so-n-so got in office.  Hmmm?  Maybe that's why the candidates feel like they need to jump up and down and, basically, stand on their heads to get our attention?!  Like kids fighting over who gets to play on the monkey bars, American politics has degenerated into childish antics.  “He did this….she did that….that’s not fair…that’s not true...it's my turn...I want, I want, I want...waaaa!”  MAMAs - sound familiar?  Of course it does.  Our kids interact with this same immature level of banter.  The only difference is they have an Opinionated MAMA to make sure they play fair, take turns and use their big boy/girl voices.  Our kids are not responsible for solving the huge problems of the day, but our politicians are!

Take Delaware’s new sweetheart, Christina O’Donnell, for example.  She's adorable.  She won the Senate primary as the GOP Tea Party candidate, against the best efforts of the mainstream GOP.  She’s now in the news clips claiming she was a wiccan (yep, she says she used to hang out with witches!?).  Her hocus pocus, viewpoints on pre-marital sex of any sort and the lien on her house are more talked about than any political agenda she may have.  But, what exactly is her agenda?  Freedom of witchcraft?  No sexting?  Fiscal free for all? What will her policies be?  What is her political platform, without all the witchcraft?  Why is she talking about SEX when the economy needs some Viagra?  Why is she shouting about balancing our federal budget when she can't balance her own checkbook?   What is really going on?  These are the things we need to know.  But, it’s just more fun to talk about the silly stuff…certainly more juicy...definitely more helpful to TV ratings than boring brass tacks, right?  Christina O'Donnell is camera ready and gives great sound bites.  That's all that's important on the political playground these days.

Millions of people throughout the world envy our political system, one in which candidates get to speak to their constituents directly and citizens have the right to freely elect their own representatives.  So, why don't we take elections seriously and listen to  important policy points?  Why don't we get into the nitty gritty details of the officials we elect?  Why do we only want the snarky sound bites?  People say that they do not vote for several reasons: no time, not enough research on the issues, or that their single vote does not really matter in the larger scheme of things...blah, blah, blah...even more common is the sentiment that people are frustrated with the options on the ballot when they are asked to choose between two equally boring candidates.  The fact is when there is an interesting, polarizing candidate who says some wacky stuff, it gets us excited.  Then, we wonder why smart, hard-working candidates are so few and far between...because they are B-O-R-I-N-G and we don't vote for them!  The political discourse has withered into a game of tug-of-war and name-calling because it makes it more "fun" for us to stay engaged.  We actually like the drama...we want to hear from the gossip girls and we do everything we can to avoid being on the receiving end of the bullies, otherwise, we're left with the usual cliques.  The really cool people just walk away from the playground of politics.

Education, wars, healthcare, immigration, economic recession are just some of what is at stake here.  It is more significant that we fix these fundamental problems and re-build our country, than who gets to rule the sandbox during recess.  Instead of hearing intelligent debate on these very important issues, we find candidates slinging sex scandal gossip, extreme rhetoric, racial slurs and references to bartering chickens for healthcare.  Good grief?!@#$!  The world is watching and we are behaving like a bunch of rowdy 2nd graders.

So, yes, it's easy to see why grown ups may be turned off by politics.  But, we can’t give up now.  Not today.  Not in the face of all the enormous challenges that we have - not for ourselves, but for our children.  It’s time to show our kids that we care about the issues that face our generation and theirs.  We need to send the message that these are serious times and we need serious problem-solvers.  We will not accept the childish behavior of our politicians - we are already wiping noses and packing lunches for our own kids, so enough with the snotty behavior and free lunches from our elected leaders.  It’s time to remind ourselves that "we [indeed] get the government we deserve."  We might be temporarily entertained by all the playground antics, but our kids deserve better!

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"It's a bird, it's a plane..."

Happy Friday MAMAs,

A powerful documentary called "Waiting For Superman" is coming to a theater new you so check your local listings...sneak previews in Los Angeles this weekend, and then it will open nationwide on September 24th.   Educators across the country are already talking about it and having screenings for parents and teachers.

The synopsis directly from their official website is as follows:

"Oscar-winning filmmaker Davis Guggenheim reminds us that education statistics have names: Anthony, Francisco, Bianca, Daisy, and Emily, whose stories make up the engrossing foundations of 'Waiting For Superman.' As he follows a handful of promising kids through a system that inhibits, rather than encourages, academic growth, Guggenheim undertakes an exhaustive review of public education, surveying drop-out factories and academic sinkholes, methodically dissecting the system and its seemingly intractable problems. However, embracing the belief that good teachers make good schools, Guggenheim offers hope by exploring innovative approaches taken by education reformers and charter schools that have - in reshaping the culture - refused to leave their students behind."

Every parent should see this film. It is an important step in sparking conversation about the future of our kids' education . Great teachers and engaged parents are the heroes are children are waiting for.  Take the pledge to see it in your city!

Disclosure: Bloggers are often provided with free products, services and "experiences" from companies for the purpose of testing and reviewing them in a blog post. Any product mentioned in the blog posts of ocfamily.com may have been offered at no cost to the blogger.

In the news: 

Taylor Swift performed at MTV's award show and took the opportunity to exact a tiny bit of revenge on Kanye West.  She sang "Stealing Innocence", while a video of West interrupting her acceptance speech last year played in the background.  Her lyrics refer to the incident and give Kanye somewhat of a reprive by saying, "Every one of us has messed up too....your string of lights is still bright to me. You're still an innocent."  Nice of her.  Below is the story of one MAMA's personal experience at a Swift concert, as she rocked n rolled...

http://www.o-mama.com/articles/index/category:rock-and-roll


Yes, I did it.  I took my 10 year old to the Taylor Swift concert.  My daughter “love, love, loves” Taylor.  I figured, I knew the words to most of the songs, so why not embrace Taylor Swift as my first official teenie bopper concert experience as a MOM?!  My girlfriend got the tickets and off we went, two excited 10 year old girls, homemade “Taylor Swift Rocks” t-shirts and sparkly posters in hand.

What we experienced was a little bit country and a little bit rock & roll and a lot of hysteria all wrapped up in the shrills and chills of girls, aged 6-16.  Screaming, crying and just generally beside themselves.  Taylor Swift is a pretty girl.  But, there are a lot of pretty girls.  Taylor Swift is a talented singer.  But, there are a lot of talented singers.  There has to be something more…something authentic…something that genuinely connects her to these impressionable young girls.  What is it?

I saw first hand that she’s sweet and girly.  She talks about sparkly things, costume changes (I counted 8) and fairy tales.  She puts her hand over her heart and appreciates the sold out insanity, she blows kisses and makes hearts with her hands and sends them out to the audience.  Every single girl was convinced they were meant for her.  She wears sweet dresses with cowboy boots and writes the number 13 on her right hand.  (To be clear:  It is not a tattoo, she does what we used to do and doodles on her hand.)  She goes into the crowd and gives hugs, holds hands and makes eye contact with her fans.  Every single girl was convinced they had a special BFF relationship with her.  She writes songs about boys, heartbreak and true love.  She lets all the girls in the audience know they are not alone…that she feels all the things they feel, too!  She is a dreamer and a romantic and every single girl is convincedshe just like them.

Taylor is also fun and flirty.  She’s a little sassy and wiggles and giggles across the stage.  She has a look she throws out that says “I’ve got IT, but I’m sharing it with YOU tonight ‘cuz that’s the kind of girl that I am“ and she flips her hair so much, it made my head spin!  She sings songs about the things we ALL experienced in high school and the fun, giddy, heart-wrenching deliciousness of those teen years.  Her words are memorized by our girls (so we need to know them, too) – and she makes them believe in dreaming dreams and following their hearts. 

So, what’s the secret to her success?  How did she get that perfect blend of sugar ‘n spice and everything nice? I’m convinced that she has an Opinionated MAMA that has raised a sweet girl! Good job mom.  This MAMA is a fan!!!

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"What we say, goes!"

Happy Friday MAMAS!

We know who has this job in our homes....we do!  We don't get to have mid-term elections, or any elections at all for that matter, we are the incumbents and we are here to stay!  There's never going to be a term limit for us, because this is a lifetime job.  Remember MAMAs to stay strong and teach your kids well.   What we say, goes!  

Disclosure: Bloggers are often provided with free products, services and "experiences" from companies for the purpose of testing and reviewing them in a blog post. Any product mentioned in the blog posts of ocfamily.com may have been offered at no cost to the blogger.

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